Anyone who claims to be ‘tolerant’ needs to respect your viewpoint and not try to force it on you, in person or through unconscionable laws.

Be sure people are applying the same standards to all viewpoints.

Some wouldn’t want done to them, what they do to others. These people are bigots.  Often they are heterophobes.  Show them they need not fear straights.  But also make sure they show respect.  Always stand your ground for what’s right.